Thursday, March 6, 2014
Six Interview Questions for Me
9:08 am mst
Six Interview Questions
I was interviewed by a student for
his English class. I thought you might find this interesting. These are his questions and my answers.
Question 1: What do psychics believe in?
If you are asking about religion, I
have interviewed psychics from all religious backgrounds. People grew up in whatever religious tradition their family followed.
Along the way, they discovered that they had gifts and were able to communicate directly with unseen entities, such as angels,
Spirit Guides, or God. What they believe in is a larger picture of our universe where there are spirits which we cannot see,
but which we can contact for information which informs our lives. There is a bigger earth system which includes both the physical
system and the non-physical system. Then, there is an even bigger universe in which we live.
souls, we travel from "side" to "side." By that I mean that sometimes we have incarnations on earth, and
sometimes we exist on "the other side." Only, "the other side" isn't really a "side." It
is a form of energy which vibrates at a higher frequency than we can see. The other side can be right next to us, but we are
not aware of it because most of us don't see it. The best metaphor I have heard is that we can't see spirits on the
other side because they are vibrating too quickly for us to see them. It's like a fan. When the fan is at rest, you see
the blades. But, when the fan is working, the blades are rotating too fast to see the individual blades.
Souls have many incarnations in physical bodies so that they can experience all facets of life. Sometimes they experience
being poor, sometimes they experience being rich. Souls can show up as any ethnicity, race, or gender, just to see what that
life experience is like.
Another major concept which people have shared is that they believe that
there is a universal force working throughout the universe. You can call this force God, or Source, or All that Is. This energy
source is composed of love. Love is the force which keeps the universe in motion.
2: How does someone become a psychic, or are you born with it?
Most people who are highly
intuitive were born with the gift. They had odd experiences as children and, later, figured out that they were psychic. Perhaps
they saw ghosts, or they knew what someone was thinking before the words were said. These children thought everyone was like
that, but when they shared what they knew, they were told it was just their imagination. They often shut down their abilities
until they figured out that they were psychic and began to wonder what they could do. Then, they explored their gifts.
A few of the people who I interviewed were born into this life remembering the other side, knowing about their gifts,
and knowing what they came here to do. Other people had normal childhoods and were able to develop their gifts through years
of work and study.
Question 3: How do visions work?
the quick answer is "people see them." That's how visions work. I think the deeper question you are asking is
how does inter-realm communication work? Lots of answers to that question.
I have a whole checklist
of psychic abilities. Some people tell me that they see images in their mind; other people tell me that they can see things
in real life. For example, they will see someone's deceased relative standing next to that person. They will see the deceased
person wearing an outfit, or doing something, which will help the client identify the spirit. For example, they will see an
older guy, smoking a pipe with cherry tobacco, and the client will know that that is their grandfather.
Other psychics don't see things. Instead, they may hear words or phrases. They can hear this voice in their head
or "out there."
Other psychics don't see or hear information. Instead they
just "know." One psychic told me that she could know something as clearly as I could know that my computer was in
front of me.
Other psychics "feel" information. They are empathic and can feel whatever
the client is feeling. They use this sense to help the person look at an issue and discover new perspectives.
Some psychics just open their mouths and words come pouring out. They allow information to flow from Spirit, through
them, to the client.
All of the psychics with whom I have spoken tell me that they do this work
to help people. It would be much easier to keep quiet about their gifts, but they know that they were given these gifts so
that they could help their friends and clients to live better, richer lives.
4: I was wondering if there was a uniform psychic way of doing something? From what you have said it seems like there is no
one way of doing something but multiple ways.
You're right. There is no uniform
way of being psychic. Everyone has a unique way of doing their work. Somehow, they manage to tap into an invisible information
Question 5: Is there a difference between Hollywood psychics and real psychics?
The big difference between Hollywood psychics and real psychics is that Hollywood psychics seem to get huge, clear
messages. Actual psychics get bits and pieces of messages and information which they share with their client. The psychic
tries to put the bits and pieces together to make a clear message, but the psychic doesn't want to interpret the message
because they don't want to put their own spin on it.
Question 6: It sounds like people
from any culture or race or religion can become a psychic. Is this true?
from all races, religions, cultures, ethnicities, and genders can be psychic.
There is so much more to this that I could write a whole book. Wait! I did. I wrote a book entitled, "My Psychic Search: discovering what psychics do, what psychics know, and how they can help us improve our lives." I also have five years worth of blogs which should answer all of your other questions.
Tuesday, March 4, 2014
Quote from a Psychic - Animal Communication
10:28 am mst
Quote from a Psychic - Animal Communication
asked Erik Von Assman, an empath, if he was able to communicate with animals and this is what he told me:
"I love animals. Communicating with animals is soft and gentle. They don't have lives in their heads. They
are "cleaner." They can be easier to read than humans. Sometimes people just have static in their heads.
"We have an empathic connection. I feel what they feel. Mammals and birds are very interesting. A couple of
generations back there was a powerful animal psychic in my family.
"Personally, I really
like grey squirrels and raccoons. I used to make friends with raccoons. I would sit outside and gossip with them. I used to
have animals show up at my apartment in Port Townsend. One day a small, orange cat ran in through an open door, laid by my
bedroom and curled up. I bond well with cats. Cats understand me."
Thursday, February 27, 2014
When Psychics Die
12:35 pm mst
When Psychics Die
A psychic/Medium friend of mine had a psychic
friend die a couple of weeks ago. The dying woman lingered in hospice care for quite a while. She was at the edge of life,
and she hung on much longer than people expected. You might think that a psychic, knowing what lay ahead and knowing that
she would be out of pain, would be eager to move on. At least, that's what I thought.
friend often visited the dying woman, as did many members of their church community. My friend suspected that the sick woman
was not leaving her body because she was giving her church family time to come together. Some of these people had not seen
each other for a while and this woman's "lingering" provided the opportunity for them to reconnect.
Then, the sick woman died. She shed her physical body and her energy shifted into the non-physical realm.
So, what happens when psychics die? Mediums on this side are still able to communicate with them.
My friend talked with her deceased friend and asked why she had hung on so long? The woman replied that all of her
visitors had held her hand and loved her, and she had basked in the love of the people who came to say good-bye. It felt good.
Even unconscious, she felt their love.
When someone is ready to leave their physical body, an
Angel of Transition comes to assist them. We might hold a frightening concept of the Grim Reaper, or the Angel of Death, but
these images are not accurate. The Angel of Transition helps the person understand what is happening and comforts them. This
Angel surrounds the person with love and eases their transition.
Death is a shedding of the physical
body and a rebirth into the energetic world. At some future time, souls can choose to return to the Earth plane. This is also
a transition. It is a rebirth into the physical world. A portion of our spirit, our Higher Self, remains on the other side
guiding our physical life. This is the Wheel of Incarnation. This is the circle of life.
Send your e-mails to me at gail@MyPsychicSearch.com. If you are interested in discussing this topic with a psychic or Medium, you can find several of them at this Sunday's
Psychic Fair at the Windmill Inn.
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Quote from a Psychic - Leah Taylor
9:56 am mst
Quote from a Psychic
"I would say that
there is more that we don't know about human consciousness than we do know. There are possibilities out there and even
if it isn't the norm to have miracles and healings, there are cases where it has happened. People should try to be open
to exploring the limits of human potential and consciousness."
Monday, February 24, 2014
Update on "Annoying People"
11:09 am mst
Last Thursday I posted a long essay regarding "Annoying People." Anyone who read that essay, then
went back to look at it again, found that it had changed. I kept returning to that blog post and updating it as I saw new
While writing the essay, I drew distinctions between the various kinds of annoying
people. You know, people who wander in and out of our lives vs. people who we have to see all of the time. After posting the
essay, I realized that a clearer distinction had to be made between annoying people and annoying situations. Either way, the
people in these situations require our time and care, but when we love the people we don't find them annoying. We find
the situations frustrating.
Then, I had to return to the essay and re-work the section on
people with dementia. We must assist people with dementia because they can no longer be responsible for themselves. However,
we may still resent the amount of time we have to devote to these folks.
The original idea
for this post was to think about people who do not have dementia. They are just irritating because they are so self-focused
that they don't realize how demanding they are. They are in our lives, demanding our energy, and giving nothing in return.
We can't sever our ties. We have to do what needs to be done, but we can draw a line and remind these folks that they
are responsible for their own health and happiness. They must take responsibility for their lives and we should not allow
them to assign that responsibility to us. If they refuse to do the work themselves, they can bring in paid caregivers. We
don't have to spend our time caring for people who can care for themselves and refuse to do it.
There. That was what I discovered. We can set limits on the amount of care we are willing to provide and we can require
people who are capable of caring for themselves to stop relying on us because they find that easier than running their own
Are there metaphysical principles at play here? Sure. You can read the full blog
post (below) to get a few ideas of how to think about these situations.
Thursday, February 20, 2014
Perspectives on Annoying People
9:49 am mst
On December 19, 2013, I wrote about some of
my metaphysical questions and experiences related to "Real Life Relationships." I wondered if our current relationships
with annoying people had to do with re-balancing karma from previous lifetimes, working through issues from earlier in this
lifetime, or learning life lessons.
Psychics tell me that we create our own paths and that if
we don't like how things are going, we can choose new paths, but I couldn't figure out how we could terminate negative
relationships with people who need us, without incurring negative karma.
As I was writing that
blog post, I received several answers and I'm going to share some of them with you today.
of all, we need to tease apart the community of "annoying people." There are people at work and people in our social
circles who are irritating, and we can do our best to avoid them or to set boundaries so that we minimize our time together.
Then, there are irksome co-workers and relatives who we can't escape: our emotionally-stunted bosses, our uber-competitive
coworkers, our opinionated relatives, etc. Again, we can try to minimize our time with them.
there are our long-term "tied to them" relatives who may, or may not, have started out as annoying people, but who
now require so much time, energy and attention, that our relationships have shifted from familial to caretaker.
These people often test our sense of fairness, or our view of how the world should work. We think that people should
be civil to each other and try to make each other's lives easier. Instead, our annoying people take assistance without
giving back. They suck our emotional energy. The relationship energy is off-balance. If they are cognizant, we can set boundaries;
but many of them don't even know they are doing it.
After writing that blog post in December,
I discovered that many folks are dealing with unrewarding relationships with relatives and that they cannot break these ties.
Some of these relatives have dementia, others just drain our strength and demand our time. And sometimes, the people aren't
annoying as much as the situation seems unfair. Among the people I know, one has a mother with Alzheimers living with her.
Two people have husbands with cognitive impairment. (These are not irritating people, they are loved ones who need a lot of
time and attention). Another friend takes care of her elderly mother-in-law.
So, I seem to have
picked up a theme. Sometimes the people who we find most exasperating are relatives with dementia. We can't not
help them, but having too much contact leaves us frustrated because we can't have meaningful communication with these
people. Other people can't be diagnosed with dementia, but are no longer capable of the kind of human interaction which
makes us feel like our time is well spent. We have compassion for these folks, we understand that they need our assistance,
but that doesn't make it fun.
Oftentimes, we take care of them because we love them. Other
times, we take care of them because we feel guilty or we operate from a sense of "duty." I'm not psychologist.
I'm just thinking about what I see going on around me.
When someone has taken care of us,
treated us well and loved us, we take care of them because we love them. Our previously-loving relationships have built a
reserve of goodwill which inspires our care. However, after a prolonged period of caregiving, and a realization that we are
sacrificing our own sacred time, that pool of goodwill can run dry, and we can feel guilt if we think we must care for someone
else only because they cared for us. We continue caring for them out of guilt.
When we don't
have an underlying foundation of love, but we know we must do what needs to be done, we operate out of duty. Without a pool
of goodwill to draw from, we may feel that our assistance is an obligation. We help those in need.
this is related to past karma or, maybe, the karma has already been rebalanced and we have just allowed these people to live
beyond their normal, useful, life span. That may sound cold, but how often have we used medical intervention to prolong someone's
life only to find ourselves in the position of having to devote more time and care to people who are less able to appreciate
the amount of energy we devote to them? Meanwhile, we are distracted from our work and we may have
circumvented their soul's desire to move on. We are beginning to accumulate fresh, negative karma from these
How many times have we, as a society, circumvented a soul's desire to leave
by putting a person on a ventilator or supporting a body in a prolonged coma while the soul is attempting to escape and move
on? The soul is going back and forth between realms, but remains tethered to the ailing body.
relates back to a piece I wrote several months ago entitled, "The Long View," which also received quite a few responses.
When we take the long view of a soul's travels through multiple lifetimes, we can see that after a good, full, life, it
is okay to allow people to die so that their souls can move on to their next adventure.
Variety of Views
Now, let's take a few views of this situation with annoying people.
One view: Maybe we just can't know what the karmic lesson is from this side. We don't have the big picture.
We just have to do what we do and find out later how it all worked out.
Another view: We can ask,
"What can I learn from this situation?" Is there an experience I am here to fine tune? Patience? Medical ethics?
It might not have anything to do with them personally. It might have to do with learning something like "the joy of helping."
Another view: We may not understand the big picture of our series of lifetimes and how we set
things up. We have been interacting with the same set of souls, playing different roles, over eons. Perhaps, we have set things
up so that we can experience the best or worst of mothering. Or, we are having one life of being a caregiver and one life
of needing extra care. Perhaps we are best friends on the other side but, here, we are playing a part just to have a particular
experience. We can take responsibility for the set up and look beyond the "annoyance" of the situation to figure
out what kind of experience we are examining from all sides. We are turning the diamond of our lifetime from side to side,
seeing it from all angles. Polishing one facet of the diamond during each life experience.
view: If we didn't have challenges on earth, how would we discover who we are? How would we know what we are willing to
stand up for? Irksome people are just one more challenge. Conflict helps us define ourselves.
view: A lot of irritating people are unhappy people. If they were happy in their own lives, they would leave us alone.
Final view: Maybe we are taking things too personally. Perhaps we are just pawns in the other person's life game.
After December's blog post, I received
several thoughtful e-mails.
One psychic advised me: Either you change the situation or you change
your thoughts. You can allow yourself to be drawn into the drama, or you can see it as a play, observe, and find a humorous
or simple way of saying, "I see things differently and that's what makes the world go round . . . " Their rules
in their lives, your rules in yours. Life is too short to play by other people's rules.
intuitive advised: I do a LOT of breathing in of the Golden White and Violet Light, and Archangel Michael and I have become
best friends. The Light clears the energy field and then I ask Michael, the one who clears Karma, to give me another miracle.
As I re-group and re-center, so does my Universe. As one Buddhist Master said: "Miracles are the natural order. Let them
in." It all helps.
A Medium responded: You cannot run and hide from a path you are already
on, or that you chose on the way in . . . you CAN choose a response. We are on the Earth plane for a reason. We aren't
supposed to be ostriches. Some metaphysicians out there will say, "Only surround yourself with those who agree or love
what you are doing." You can say, "I don't like the way this is going, so I guess I shall change my mind."
You can indeed change your mind, but at some point that "thing" you are avoiding will again rear its ugly head because
You said You wanted to get this during this lifetime.
Then, I read: Dearest
Gail, to whom are you proving you are dutiful? I give you permission to be less dutiful. You don't have to be perfect.
Your love is enough.
Finally, I received this response: Since my Mom and I are living together,
I totally understand your question. My lesson has been nothing to do with her, but it does on the back end. When I get annoyed
by her, I look at "how" and "why" I am hearing or seeing things as an annoyance. Usually, it's an
insecurity that I have. As I have allowed more light into my life, and gained a greater understanding of my mission here on
earth, I also see my Mom changing. She can see the light shining thru me . . . and now her mind is opening up because I am
being more fully who I am.
Comments from the Other Side
my meditation, my invisible support group said, "This person's soul loves you, but the personality in the body has
no clue. Much love will be evident on the other side." They added, "We admire what you do. You hate it, you fight
it, but you do it. It shows fortitude."
So, maybe, our job is to shine our love and light
on the people we find annoying. Shower them with love. Perhaps, we can help them see that there is a bigger picture, a bigger
universe, and that when we meet on the other side, we will understand our interplay. Until then, we cope as best we can.
If you read this far, do you have thoughts or comments to add? Please send them to me at gail@MyPsychicSearch.com.
Tuesday, February 18, 2014
Where did your gift come from?
12:27 pm mst
Last summer, I interviewed a Tarot card reader in Connecticut who told me many things which I had never
before heard. One of the things she told me was that her psychic ability had been passed to her when a psychic relative had
died. This is an excerpt from my conversation with Maryushka.
Gail: Does this talent run in your family?
in every generation someone has it; someone is able to do what I am able to do.
first cousin was the person in the generation before me. The weekend she died, I had no idea she was in the hospital. I went
through a series of psychic experiences. I was in my 20s. I wasn't a reader, just a person experiencing what was happening.
I kept getting psychic hits. You've heard of psychic hits? A psychic hit is when you are standing up and you literally
have to hang on to the table because it is as if someone took a stick and hit you in the back of your knees. That is why they
call it a psychic hit. At least that is how I experienced it.
I have heard of intuitive hits,
but not a physical psychic hit. An intuitive hit is like a confirmation.
For me, it was physical and I had to hold
on to something. Then, ethereal things began happening. I saw specters, figures, and shadows. I was dizzy. The weekend she
died, I had at least two of these events where, after I was able to steady myself, I had to run to the couch and lay down.
I immediately fell asleep. I had no idea it was connected to her. She was deciding whether to stay or to go. She went. In
her passing, she gave the gift to me. Not that I didn't have something, I had something before this, but I had way more
after she died.
I have not heard this from anyone. You feel that someone was able to pass
their gift to you?
She passed her gift to me.
At the moment of death, she passed
the gift to you.
You can find out more about Maryushka on her website at www.PartyReaders3.com.
Thursday, February 13, 2014
Love Across the Veil
5:45 pm mst
Meanderings on Love
Tomorrow is Valentine's Day, so today's
blog post is about, you guessed it, Love.
According to the psychics, love is
the creative energy of the universe. Love really does make the world go 'round. When you meet God, you find love.
Now, for my personal experience.
It's easy to love the world. It's easy to bring
in love from the universe and send it out to assist the plants, the animals, and the earth.
harder to love individual people. Loving the people we love is easy, but it's extremely hard to love the people we don't
like. We are supposed to love everyone. We are supposed to try to see the God in everyone; that will make loving them easy.
For me, that remains difficult.
Actually, it may be easier to love in theory than it is to love
for real. Love generally requires effort to maintain. Except for romantic love. Romantic love is easy because it starts with
infatuation. Most of us have felt the rush of the infatuation/love mixture. The feeling is just fabulous until life intervenes
and the infatuation recedes. After infatuation, we are left with either real love or the feeling that we have made a big mistake.
Find something to love . . . and love it. A person, an animal, a plant, a passion. Try to find a few people in your
inner circle to love. If you love someone, show how much you appreciate that person in your life. If you are fortunate enough
to have multiple family members and friends whom you love, so much the better.
If you love something,
you are happy to care for it. If you don't love it, it is a bother. Aspire to appreciate the world so you are happy to
care for it.
One major lesson on this planet is to learn to love ourselves. We are here to discover
the things we love about our selves and to acknowledge that we are expansive beings who are here for an adventure.
Love is easy. Love is hard. Love is in the moment. Love has to be planned for. Love has to be supported with actions.
Love takes time and energy. It takes devotion. Do we have to pretend to love the people we don't like? Sometimes it's
the easy way to go (you know, kissing your repulsive aunt on the cheek), but integrity is important too. We love our children,
but they are a lot of work. A lot of sleepless nights. Why do we do it? Because we love them.
can I offer you which you may not have already heard?
Love Crosses the Veil
Last night, l was laying in bed, worried about something. I asked for help and I felt my supportive spiritual team
wrapping me in a blanket of love.
Does love cross the veil? Yes. We know the love we feel
for those who have crossed over. They can love us too. We can feel them beam love to us.
spiritual community is cheering while I write this piece. They are standing behind my chair. This is new to me.
I ask, "What do you guys want me to write?" and they answer, "We are here. We provide support. You
don't need to know who we are. You have not met all of us in this lifetime, but you have met us on the other side. We
are here for you." They tell me that they are our cheerleading squad. They help us avoid accidents on the freeways when
everyone is changing lanes and cars could crash at any moment. They say, "We watch from afar. We visit right next to
you. We are so close."
From the spirit side, they are here for us. From our side, we are
here for them. We physically manifest the things which they cannot create because they are not in bodies. They prompt our
handiwork, then we combine the materials to produce the things they dream up. We call it "inspiration."
Yes, love crosses the veil. Close your eyes, tune in, and feel the love. It's a wonderful world in which we live.
Thoughts or comments? Please send them to me at gail@MyPsychicSearch.com.
Tuesday, February 11, 2014
Quote from a Psychic
10:11 am mst
Quote from a Psychic
"I was born
into a highly-dysfunctional family. I have come to realize that a lot of dysfunction in this world is created out of not understanding
the gifts which people have. For example, once you start understanding and working with your gifts, you can take hold of them.
A lot of people are psychic, but don't realize it. Ghosts and energies play with them and cause disharmony. I am a strong
believer that there is very little mental illness here; it is just that many people have gifts which they don't know how
to work with or don't know that they have."
Later in our interview:
"Jesus said that any negative thought or action is a thought or action of mental illness. Anything which causes
dysfunction or harm is mental illness. Other people will argue that you need the good with the bad to learn, but I believe
that the world is coming out of that. The world no longer wants to be a planet of duality.
do not negate the dysfunction I went through as a child because it helped me to learn. It takes an extremely high spirit to
learn. It takes an extremely high spirit to go through a negative lifetime. There is such profound learning that spirit gains
from that kind of lifetime. But, do we need it to learn? I feel we can learn in a positive way just as easily as a negative
way. I feel that we are in the transition and it will take two to three generations to come out of this."
Thursday, February 6, 2014
The Difference Between Psychic Ability and Mediumship
11:12 am mst
The Difference between Psychic Ability and Mediumship
off to the Gem Show today to look for baubles and pyramids. Tucson, AZ, is the center of a huge, world-wide gem show this
month. Last week, I went to one of the shows and stocked up on chakra-balancing pendants. These pendants help energy flow
freely through our bodies. You can purchase these pendants on the Chakra Jewelry and Wands page of this website.
Today, I am going to have an adventure. Who knows what I will find at
this gem show venue?
Before I leave, I want to share something I recently heard. Remember when
I wrote about "Hearing Doubles"? A psychic will tell me something, then a bit later someone else will tell me about
their same experience. The latest "double" I heard was about the difference between accessing information as a psychic
and accessing information as a Medium. Remember, most psychics are not Mediums, but all Mediums are psychics.
Lisa Williams wrote a book entitled, "The Survival of the Soul" (Hay House, 2012). On page 18, she said,
"I learned that there were different energies I could work with, depending on
whether a reading was a psychic reading or a message from the Afterlife. I liken the two approaches to ascending two different
staircases: I go up the psychic staircase to open myself up to a person's destiny and pathway; alternatively, I go up
the mediumship staircase when I open myself up to the spirit realm. It always takes more energy to go up the mediumship staircase,
but it's well worth it because it really helps people communicate with loved ones who have passed. I'm not saying
that psychic readings are unable to help others, as they can provide so much clarity and hope in certain situations, but the
mediumship route to me is more rewarding.
"Sometimes I find that
I need to switch staircases midway to check information given through one approach or the other. There have been times when
I started up the mediumship staircase, receiving information from Spirit, and then had to switch to check on the accuracy
- a kind of spirit-realm cross-referencing and back-up procedure. This is always a challenge to do, but it's also fun,
especially when it yields confirmation."
Now, for the "doubles" part.
In November, I interviewed a psychic Medium in Virginia and I asked how she received information. She explained to me that
she has learned to distinguish where the information is coming. If it's simply a psychic reading, she picks up information
from the client's aura and most of it this information is already known by the client. This work gives the client a confirmation
that what she is getting is real. Then she can get a bit about their future. She reminds people that the future is fluid because
as they change, and they change their decisions, their paths will change. The psychic piece is all around them energetically.
The psychic information just comes to her. She knows it.
So, for the psychic piece, the information
can be found around the person, in their aura or their energy. For the mediumship piece, the information is not in their aura.
She has to step out of that and into a higher vibration. This is a completely different way to access information. She has
to become very still to establish a direct connection to people on the other side. It is a different kind of work.
In addition to accessing information from a client's energy field or establishing a connection to spirits on
the other side, information also comes from Spirit Guides. Psychics often tell me that they will receive whatever information
the client needs to hear. The source of the information can vary so that the client gets what they need.
Fascinating, isn't it?
Okay, now check out the Chakra Jewelry and Wands page and let me know what you need.
Wednesday, February 5, 2014
Quote from a Psychic - Bad News?
9:34 am mst
Quote from a Psychic - Bad News?
A few months ago, I asked
a psychic/Medium, "When you do readings, are you able to tell people 'bad news'? How do you handle that?"
"I don't get bad news. Everything that comes to us in our lives is our
soul calling to us. These things come to us as a lesson to learn so it's all about our soul unfolding and our growth.
There is no such thing as bad news. If someone asks me about a personal relationship with their boyfriend and I see that coming
to a close, I don't see that as bad news. I remind people that within every loss, there is a gift and to look at it that
way. Another door is going to open for them and something better is going to come into their life. They should look at the
lessons they have learned from that relationship.
"How can there be bad news?"
Monday, February 3, 2014
10:42 am mst
"Oh. You mean we have
to remember why we are here?" I asked.
"That's the whole point, Silly," she
said with a little laugh.
"Why are we here?" I almost whispered.
"To learn to love ourselves," she said as her aura grew in strength and her colors danced all around her
in ways too hard to describe in words. "For unless we truly love ourselves, how can we truly love others?" she said
with a look on her face that showed it was the most natural thing in the world to know. "When we learn to love ourselves
and see God in everything, in the flowers and the trees, the animals, the rocks, the sky, the stars, the ants and spiders,
our neighbors, and ourselves, well then we have learned well."
"Wow, how cool!"
I exclaimed, seeing what she meant. "If we always thought like that it would almost seem possible to have Heaven on Earth!"
She looked at me, her eyes wide open, not saying a word.
I get it." I said, suddenly seeing the light.
Thursday, January 30, 2014
Conscious Creation: Personal and Group Consciousness
2:05 pm mst
Today I'm writing about something I am pondering. Perhaps
those of you who know more could help fill in anything I am missing.
Let's start with what
We each co-create our personal world. Our thoughts are energy vibrations which go out
to the Universe. The Universe matches our thought vibrations to help us co-create our worlds. So, for example, in my world
I love peace and quiet in my own home. It gives me time to think and to write. I focus on appreciating my alone time and the
Universe matches my thoughts and cooperates with me to create quiet time for my meditation and my work.
Someone who craves excitement may use their thoughts to express gratitude to the Universe for an exciting life. The
Universe will match that thought vibration of gratitude and bring them additional excitement.
you are seeking something particular in life, remember to express gratitude whenever a snippet of what you want shows up.
Your gratitude will indicate to the Universe that you want more of that specific item or experience.
remember that once we and the Universe have set the stage for our personal lives, what we do matters. We still need to use
our hands and our actions to create our lives.
So, we create our personal worlds.
But what about the larger world? The world of wars, political battles, and environmental problems? People tell me
that there is a group consciousness which creates and influences the larger world. If enough people think that world is a
difficult place to live, they will focus on the evidence which supports their position, and the Universe will match their
focus and co-create the world as an even more-difficult place to live.
If the majority of people
are unhappy with the way the world is going and they become pessimistic, their negative emotions and sorrowful reactions to
the larger world will be matched by more of what they don't want. If the cultural belief is, "There's no way
to save the environment," that thought vibration will be matched by the Universe. It will become true and there will
be no way to save the environment. We all must be mindful of our thoughts regarding our personal worlds and the larger world
which we share.
On the other hand, if we focus on the good things in our life and in the world,
and express appreciation for lovely flowers, beautiful sunsets, and peace wherever we see it, our positive thought vibrations
will be matched by the Universe and we will see more flowers, beautiful sunsets, and peace. And, in areas where we see there
is room for improvement, we can send healing light (aiding the group consciousness) and work to make things better (taking
Think about the upcoming Sochi Olympics. The evening news is full of
potential terrorism threats. The news is all about the drama of conflict. What about all of the magnificent athletes who are
striving for perfection in their sport? As a group, we can focus on potential terrorism and have the Universe match that energy
vibration, or we can focus on the beauty of the sports and the exhilaration of the athletes, and have the Universe match that
Those of us who feel we are lightworkers can bring in the light and express our appreciation
for the loveliness of the world so that we counteract any group negativity and we create group-consciousness optimism. When
we are meditating and focusing on our love for a beautiful green Earth full of vibrant plants and animals, the Universe can
match those thoughts and continue to provide vibrant plants and animals. With our thought vibrations, we are co-creating both
our personal reality and the larger world.
I would be interested in hearing your thoughts on how
our group consciousness affects the world. If you have examples which I can share with blog readers, I would be happy to post
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
Tip for Intuitive Development: Erasing the Blackboard
10:03 am mst
Last year, a psychic named Pam shared an idea for developing intuitive abilities. Perhaps this technique
could work for us:
"You could learn to develop your intuition. There is really no trick.
You just close your eyes and get into a really quiet place. You have to train to erase conscious thoughts when you are in
this place. What I learned to do . . . I went to a meditation class one time and this is where I picked it up. The guy said
to close your eyes and visualize a blackboard. The word "thoughts" is written across the blackboard numerous times.
You visualize an eraser and you erase the word "thoughts" one at a time, until the blackboard is clear. If another
thought comes into your head, you see that word "thoughts" and you erase it again.
was a great tool for me. It worked. I was able to clear everything out. You would be surprised at how much can come in when
those thoughts are gone. It really comes in. If I am mentally busy, I don't do such a great job. If you can find a way
to get the thoughts out, things can come in."
Thank you, Pam!
Thursday, January 23, 2014
Meet a Psychic Medium - Marianne Patyk
11:09 am mst
What is it like to be a Psychic Medium? On today's blog post we meet Marianne Patyk.
Meet a Psychic: Marianne Patyk - Medium
Marianne Patyk is a Medium which means
that she communicates with people who have died and crossed to the other side. She has seen spirits since she was about eight
years old and she reports that all of her relatives have visited her after passing. During their visits, it feels like they
are having a normal conversation.
Marianne has had brain seizures since birth. As a young teenager,
Marianne had several seizures where she astral-traveled to the other side, then came back. She has seen Heaven. Marianne's
brain has experienced trauma and she believes that she is psychic because of the trauma to her brain.
Even with all of her experiences seeing spirits and astral-traveling as a child, Marianne knows that her abilities
as a Medium didn't really open up until after a traumatic event in her 40s. At that point, she started hearing things
she had never heard before. Her experience was similar to what happened to Whoopi Goldberg's character in the movie Ghost
(1990): suddenly she started hearing a lot of information from people who had crossed over.
Marianne's gift as a Medium surfaced in her 40s, her abilities were more potent than when she was a child. She started
smelling aromas which were not physically present and hearing messages. It was overwhelming. She had to determine which abilities
and tools she had as a Medium. Then, she had to accept, embrace, and learn how to work with these gifts.
When clients comes to Marianne, she asks them what they want to know or if they have someone specific whom they would
like to contact. If there is someone with whom they want to speak, Marianne asks for that person's name. She takes a quiet
moment to see if she can contact the person. Then, she gets a vision or hears a voice. She connects directly to the person
the client is asking about. However, she doesn't fully understand how all of this works and how she is able to make the
connection. It just works.
Marianne is intuitive, empathic, clairvoyant (sees images) and clairaudient
(hears messages). She also smells aromas (which are not physically present), provides pet readings, and performs automatic
Most of Marianne's readings are done over the phone, but she also meets people in
When Marianne reads for people it can drain her energy and affect her emotionally and
physically. Because she is empathic, she is open to people's emotions. Sometimes, clients are very intense and that is
hard on her. She absorbs all of their emotions. Marianne finds that it is best to limit her readings so that she has time
to relax and recover each evening. She tries to rest and live a stress-free life so that she can continue working as a Medium.
If you would like to work with Marianne, she can be contacted at firstname.lastname@example.org, 520-207-2663.
This Psychic Story is an excerpt from the book, My Psychic Search, discovering what psychics do, what psychics know, and how they can help us improve our lives.